The Perfect Duo

My husband is usually the main disciplinarian in our family. After he lays down the ground rules in his fatherly, authoritative voice, the girls often end up in tears. "Why does he have to be so mean?" our youngest will often say. "I don’t think Papa likes me."

As a mother, I often find myself in the role of a loving mediator. I frequently reassure them that they are misinterpreting his motives and that rules are set with good intentions.

Every household needs authority and discipline, often represented by the father, combined with the loving and warm attributes of a mother. This balance is crucial for children to grow and mature.

I find the same to be true for our spiritual growth and discernment. When we read God's word, we learn the ground rules. We become aware of his authority, and we may find him strict. We see where we fall short and can't measure up. The authoritative voice will sometimes leave us feeling condemned and not loved.

Yet, this is precisely why we need the gentle, loving guidance of The Holy Spirit. It is through the Spirit that we can truly comprehend God's law. The Spirit illuminates God's motives and intentions, correcting our misunderstandings and guiding us when we have missed the mark. 

Joseph of the New Testament is a great example to draw from.

Joseph was a godly man who strictly adhered to God's law. The Bible says that while he was engaged to Mary, it was found that she was pregnant. It says, "Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, he had in mind to divorce her" (Matthew 1:19). But it was soon revealed to him in a dream, "Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit" (verse 20).

If Joseph had made his decision based on the law alone, Mary would have been condemned. With the help and guidance of the Holy Spirit, Joseph gained clarity and understanding.

Supporting Text

The Holy Spirit…will teach you all things. (John 14:26)

Who also made us sufficient as ministers of the new covenant, not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.  (2 Co.3:6)